Saturday, January 24, 2015

Germany, Germans, German

This post is just a lot of thoughts I have about the country, the people, and the language. This post goes from one subject to the next without necessarily connecting to each other, it's a bit abrupt.

I'm going to go with the assumption that anyone who has read at least a couple blog posts of mine knows that I find the German people simply fantastic. I find that they aren't as materialistic or consumeristic as Americans. They also don't care about how other people think about them as much Americans pay attention to outward appearences. But I also wish Germans smiled more often. It's not that they aren't friendly, I just prefer that when I walk down the street in a city, people look a little livelier. I mean, you live in a great country, that's got to be one reason to smile ...And not that this a competition, but that is a point for you, America. You're cool, too.

When I visited Berlin for a few days in June 2013 after I had successfully mastered Spanish, I couldn't help but laugh (from helplessness) when I walked around and I had no idea what anyone was saying around me and what different signs said. I was just happy I knew English. I can imagine myself thinking that this language was ridiculous and it definitely wasn't on my list to learn nor did I even think I was capable of learning it. And now when I hear German, I cannot help but say to myself, "Dude, how did I even learn German. I don't even understand how this happened to me." It's a cool and accomplished feeling.

I have read lots of articles on language learning and languages in general, and one reoccurring theme I read about language learning is that the moment you think a language is too hard, it will actually be hard to learn. Laughable, I thought. However, these past few months, I have been trying that method out. For example, reading and writing are challenging because the way the language is written I find is more complicated to understand than how it is spoken (I'm not talking about texting with my friends). Now I'm trying to take this positive mentality and adopt concrete methods of learning to read and write better. So, I've been reading newspapers and magazines more often. I still read slowly, but I know I will see improvement over time. The thing with writing German, for example on schoolwork, is that I feel like I have to write everything without grammatical errors or else I won't be understood, which is absolutely absurd. So I'm also working on not being a perfectionist in this aspect until the time is ready to apply that pressure. It is a bit of a downer, though, when you feel like your writing capabilities are those of a small child.
My last thought on this whole "tell yourself it is easy" attitude is that sometimes I just tell myself that there are way harder languages to learn, so I should get over it.  

On a semi-similar note, sometimes I feel like I haven't learned enough in the last five months, and the way I am combating this negativity is by reminding myself that I arrived without speaking a word of German and examine the sheer amount that I have learned in five months and that that amount has at least the potential to be doubled. I then say to myself "Hey, maybe you're not doing so badly after all"

I'll be honest here, I did not need to put this much effort into learning Spanish, at all. To be even more honeset, I did not struggle and I thought it was easy. As pathetic, but smart, as this is, my method for learning a solid amount of vocubulary words was to ~Spanish-ize~ the word and go from there. It actually worked a more than you might think. The truth is, it doesn't really work in German and there aren't as many cognates as one might think. When I look up a word from English to German, it is more of a shock when it is similar to English. Here is another point I have thought a lot about. During language camp, my teacher told us that she doesn't think there is such a thing as a "language gift or ability" (I'll add the fact she speaks German, English, and French and has studied Latin). I think this is absolutely false because that's the same thing as saying that some people can't be naturally good at math. I am pretty certain people would disagree with that. I think the important thing to understand with this idea is that while some people might be good at catching onto word families and recognizing patterns within a language doesn't mean that not everyone has the potential to learn it. I wish more people in the US didn't mentally give up on their language classes after the first year and actually give up the class after two years of learning it. It's not like you're allowed to give up math after two years just because you don't think you're good at it. 

One thing that I have found interesting with Germans and their language is that they'll be speaking German (obviously) and then randomly incorporate an English word into their speech. It's not that they are official words the language has adopted, they are simply words that I assume they couldn't find a good German word for. Of course, it's depends on the context of the conversation, but even in settings that I wouldn't expect it--for example our substitute math teacher saying a problem was "tricky"--it still happens. Sometimes they'll say the word and then give a description of what exactly they mean in German. Main culprits? Words like random, awkward, and mainstream. On the other hand, there are a couple French words that German has officially adopted so it wouldn't be pretentious at all to use them. It is pretty silly to hear, though, mixed in with German because the words still sound French.
Here is another quick fun fact about the language. Numbers 21-99 are read right to left. For example, English speakers would say thirty seven and Germans would say sevenandthirty (it is written all as one word). 

The people of this country also care a lot about the environment. For example, they separate their garbage into four groups: compost, paper, plastic, and actual trash. This is not only in homes, but there are also similar options in public, like the train station. However, instead of a compost bin they have one for glass. Despite all this, it is common practice to buy bottled water because some people drink carbonated water and people don't drink out of facets. I can understand if someone doesn't want to drink out a facet because it's not pure enough water, but I mean isn't that what Brita water filters are for? It has to be better than buying thousands of plastics water bottles. I have yet to understand this and it seems counter-productive to me. It's not like I come from the most environmentally friendly country, though, so who am I to judge? 

Let's end this with something in which I'm grateful hasn't really happened to me. Apparently there is a stereotype against Germans that they make it hard for others to learn the language. I know right, why would they do that?  I guess it is said that they'll speak English to English speakers regardless if they're trying to learn German because it's easier for both parties. Germans know English pretty well, and I don't think that surprises anyone. I assume they are tying to be nice and helpful. Not once (since I've learned German) have I had to say "Hey, could we speak German?" I also did not even know this was a stereotype until I heard other people saying how it is sometimes a problem for them. So I guess thank you to everyone I've ever talk to here for making me learn and practice my German.

Shannon




Saturday, January 10, 2015

Photos

I give fair warning right now that this post contains high levels of sass and many self taken photographs. Proceed with caution.

August
Because friends who learn German together, stay together. 

Because sometimes the city is prettier at dusk.

Because sometimes you get off at random metro stops in Hamburg with your friends and you find this, and it apparently appeals so much that we decide to visit twice.


September
Because food...especially Currywurst.

Because this is naturally what one finds when she enters the area of the Filmpark titled "The Wild West."


Because my friends are pretty awesome, especially because one invited me to her birthday party after a week of knowing her.

October



Because a selfie to Belgium is the best kind of selfie. 

Because I like flags, and I can name all the countries these flags belong to... And because I freaked out simply being in this room.

Because I consider myself a professional kite flyer after dealing with the wind on the Baltic Sea.

November


Because this photo reminds me a little bit of California.

Because sometimes I'm just the random American mixed in with Turks and Germans.


Because my Turkish host sister is better at coming up with ideas for photos than me.



December
Because we rule the kingdom.

Because who doesn't take a selfie while packaging cookies for our Christmas conert.


Because I like to take pictures of things with strong color contrasts, especially the back of palaces. 


Well, I'm at the halfway point of my time here in Germany. To commemorate, I chose three photos from each month I have been in Germany. All of them have never appeared in a blog post before, and only one was posted on Instagram.
Hope you enjoyed getting a more candid view of my life here. 

Shannon

Sunday, January 4, 2015

Christmas and Break

My Christmas break was filled with time spent with my host family and my friends, and if you ask me it doesn't really get better than that.

The sheer amount of food consumed around Christmas is massive, but of course it is delicious. It's like a continuous food coma for a week. Don't even get me started on the amount of sweets given around Christmas time, specifically chocolate. Gifts are not given without some form of chocolate, usually in the shape of a Santa Claus.
The main difference between Christmas in the US and in Germany is that in Germany the true day of celebration is on the 24th. My host grandparents came over for dinner, and we then opened presents. We played a game of Monopoly, but it's a long game so we split it up between two days for two hours each. I won the game by clearly having the most money at the end, and I made all my earnings off of smart investments in just two properties. In the process, I made both my host mom and host dad go bankrupt. It's funny, though, because after the first day I was actually second to poorest. It was a really fun game, and the best part were all the "money hungry American capitalist" jokes that were made. Oh, and I'm not being sarcastic, it was super funny and I was totally joining in. 

For some reason, when me and my friends hang out it always seems to revolve around food. For example, we will bake Christmas cookies, or my friend will cook us a delectable Vietnamese dish, or we will take a 30 min train ride to the city of Brandenburg (also the name of the "state" I live in) to eat at this amazing Indian restaurant that they said I had to try. I happened to do all those things with my friends this break, and our next baking conquest is an apple pie. 

Our first snow of the season was last Monday, and the weather forecasters have been predicting snow for weeks now but it just hasn't happened. It's a strange thing, actually, that we just got snow for the first time. So strange in fact, that it made the front page last week that it still hadn't snowed, and it made the front page of the newspaper again when it did finally snow. I, of course, am 100% for a day or two of snow; however, it really can become a burden for people that live where snow is common. I didn't actually have anything planned for that day, so it was perfect that when I looked out my window and saw snow, I knew exactly what I was going to do that day. My host sister called up her friend that also lives in our village, and the three of us went to the hills in our village and went sledding! It was so much fun, but very tiring. I also got three bruises, but whatever.

our backyard

me ~trying~ to sled


at the top of the hightest hill

We have this really good family friend whose daughter lives in Potsdam. Potsdam is the capital city of Brandenburg, is pretty close in distance to Berlin, and takes about a hour to get to. I've been there once before, but this time my host sister and I travelled there on Friday and stayed with her for the night. We did some sightseeing, and I knew that the city is beautiful from before, but wow, it is truly gorgeous. There are an abundance of castles, many old edifices, and just a lot of history in the form of architecture there. Anyways, we only had the afternoon so we visited the Sanssouci Palace, which was a former summer palace of Frederick the Great, King of Prussia. While walking around the city we keep talking about food, and our friend mentioned that she had always wanted to try tacos because she sees them in movies all the time. We decided right then and there that we were having tacos for dinner. I was the one in charge of cooking everything, but tacos are not even that difficult. We found seasoning, tortillas, and taco shells in a big grocery store, which I surprised me. We found guacamole sauce as well, but I found it gross. It really just wasn't the same. The tacos were a success and I plan on cooking them again for my host family and friends. The whole point of this adventure to Potsdam was to go to this student run Karaoke night at the university that our friend is apart of. And here's the thing with karaoke, I love it. There were some really great singers and some not really great singers, but no one cared at all. Whenever someone went up to the mic to sing their song, it was their time to shine. Everyone was really nice, and we had a really fun time! I really hope we can go again.

our friend we stayed with

the palace garden


I was so intrigued by these ducks because when they extend their necks, they look like chickens. I also find them very pretty so I took a photo. 

The thing on the left is ice, but the entire time I thought it was a stone thing for the ducks in the pond...

Sanssouci Palace




Our delcious tacos! Complete with taco shells, torillas, ground beef, peppers, onions, tomatos, cheese, lettuce, sour cream, and guacamole.

I would like to conclude this post by saying I will be posting with less frequency. While I enjoy writing this blog and sharing my adventure with you, it is also time consuming. The hardest part; however, is coming up with something weekly to write a whole post on considering I'm at school 5 days a week. On the weekends when I'm hanging out with my friends, my host family, or just chilling by myself, it usually isn't interesting enough for you to want to read a blog post about it. With all said, if you have something specific you want to know about living in Germany or about my experiences here, let me know and I will gladly write about it! 
As of now, I'm aiming for three times per month instead of four. 

Shannon